Freshly updated...April 24th, 2010...
The 'Obsessive-Compulsive Approval-Seeking Underego' Speaks: 'Your love and approval are more important to me than my own self-boundaries and integrity...Just tell me who and what you want me to be...and I will be that...'
The 'Obsessive-Compulsive Approval-Seeking Underego' Speaks: 'Your love and approval are more important to me than my own self-boundaries and integrity...Just tell me who and what you want me to be...and I will be that...'
Meanwhile, The Defiant, Rebellious Alter-Ego Shakes His or Her Disagreeing Head At The Approval-Seeking Underego's 'Unbelievably Wussy Behavior' (The Approval-Seeking Underego and The Rebellious-Defiant Underego have a relationship of considerable tension and animosity when they disagree significantly about how to respond to 'external people' in their outside world.
Suffice is to say that that internal tension and conflict can mount between the approval-seeking underego and the defiant, rebellious underego. They can literally be swearing at each other -- the defiant underego claiming that the approval-seeking underego is being too 'wimpy', 'wussy', and 'soppy nice'...while the approval-seeking underego shouts back at the defiant alter-underego to 'shut up, before he or she leads them both to the plank overlooking the very deep ocean...the abyss of all mortal men and women who do not show enough 'diplomacy', who are not 'politically correct' enough, and put their individual feet in their overly rebellious individual mouths...
-- dgb, updated and modified Feb. 2nd-3rd, and April 24th, 2010
-- David Gordon Bain
