You get what you expect...If you are expecting nothing -- and/or expecting a negative experience -- then that is what you are likely to get...If you show lack of excitement -- a coldness and/or lack of interest -- the potential excitement of the moment and immediate situation is likely to quickly disappear from your partner as well...You can open up to the potential newness of every new experience...or you can stereotype your judgment on the basis of past bad experiences...and get what you expect -- a new bad experience to match the old...
-- dgb, July 19th, 2010.
-- David Gordon Bain
